I doubt anyone actually comes and read my blog because it IS lame ( thats a fact ) so I'll treat it sorta like a place where i talk crap. :D
Many 'interesting' string of events happened during the course in which i (obviously) DIDN'T update my blog --"
1. There was a bout of flu that was going around class & those ppl who usually immune system supposedly strong de fell sick .
Even Cheng Swee & Reon fell sick --"
Is that some mutated virus or something X.X
Wo3 ning4 yuan4 bu4 tan2 zhe4 jian4 shi4 but i cant help it lorhhs . Because I shi2 zai4 shi4 mei2 you3 dong1 xi1 to blog abt le -- (besides crappy D&T)
Maybe I Should Like Put Disclaimer First --"
-1- This is from MY point of view
-2- I'm not resposible for the after effects of YOU reading this
-3- If you dislike what i write is your problem because this is MY blog i have MY freedom. Besides. I never write your name anyways
-4- People names are represented by letters of the alphabet. It is not related to anyone's name in any way
-5- I have no authority to decide if you want to gossip about me but please TRY not to make my life miserable ._.
Ok. So first it was A who bring B out of class by saying want to talk. Uhhmm. THen A scolded/shouted (at) B in front of many people. Then B cried. And so THIS is the issue everyone is talking about now .
And after A finished scolding, A went to classroom. A scolded C. C&D prev also scolded E for siding with A.
So right now the situation is FGH is not friends with B anymore. Alot of people hate both A & B. C is pissed at A (vice versa) and E is ALSO pissed with whoeveknowswho.
I heard that I&J were brought into the content of what A shouted at B. So now the thing is. Some ppl hate/dislike I&J
Situation is confusing . Most of the bystanders (ppl who not involved as in abv) only have one side of the story (either side).
So the class is sorta pretty much divided (cept for some 'reject' who dont usually care abt this kinda thing & some who just want to mantain good relationship with the class & some who basically are friends with both sides) Its a tough choice so these ppl arent gonna take sides anytime soon.
Actually, i dont see a reason for sides and a so called cold 'war' .
If in the first place A didnt scold B in front of so many ppl, this wouldnt have happened in the first place.
Sure, A has A's own side of the story for doing so. A said B 'badmouthed' A to all B's classmates and influence them to hate and 'badmouth'A. But some of the class (minority --") DID witness A 'badmouthing' B which he claimed did not. I'm sure those close to A will know also laa . BUT it is true that B DID 'badmouth' A but there is NO evidence to prove that B 'influenced' B's friends to 'badmouth' A . It takes TWO hands to clap and both sides were wrong .
A should have also ti3 liang4 B's gan3 qing2 when being humiliated in front of SO MANY ppl. But sure when you break up with the person you wouldnt like them very much anyway but A shld at least try. B alr trying but by observing A always ga chiau B for wrong reasons and make B's life difficult. Sure I dont have both sides of THIS story. Conclusion cannot be made because of lack of apparent lack of evidence.
yeaarhhs. And abt the 'influencing' part. After the incident, didnt MOST of A's friends start hating B. I [u]think[/u] they most likely didnt get the other side of the story. But isn't it evident from this fact that A sort of 'influenced' A's friends into hating B? Ye2 xu3 is their own freedom of choice but we'll never know.
And now the problem between B &FGH . I kknow I really shldnt be poking my nose into their business because its personal :D
A is pissed at C. C is pissed at A.
In the first place. The person in the wrong here in THIS situation is A. A very bu shuang walk into class. THen A hen1 hen1 de4 call C. C said that A was wrong for making B cry (because B is a girl). Then A was very very bu shuang and started telling C off for poking C's nose into other ppl's business. But A was already making this issue public by scolding B loudly in front of pratically the whole Yr 1 and some Y2 classes. So this business is apparently everyone's business so A is in the wrong for scolding C. THen A cont. by saying what if the whole situation was diff and A was the one crying instead. Like come on lorh. That situation can NEVER happen. Look at this fact: A has anger management problems ( which EVERYONE would agree to . even some teachers ) . And since A alr took the initiative to start this WHOLE fucking mess in the first place by scolding B in public, why would A end up crying if A was the one scolding. Maybe A would be crying tears of anger. But none of humiliation and sadness AND the lost of confidence when you end up thinking of wantin to commit suicide.
So this situation with A & C is A's fault.
But the issue with C&D telling E off for siding with A.
But the fact was that (frm un biased witnesses at the scene) E was trying to calm A down and pull A back from advancing closer towards B in case A hit B or cause any injury to anybody. ALSO heard frm C herself that C alr apologised to E but according to ppl who heard it, it wasnt very sincere. And I'm sure that D alr apologised because they were talking with each other in class. Heard abt D;s involvement frm C's blog. Verdict: C&D was wrong.
THe situation with I&J. Diff to explain. Something like B 'influenced' I&J into 'hating' A or sth like that. A shldnt really have brought innocent people into this situation can --" Cant make a verdict because it may seem biased because there is no evidence to support.
Some words to B:
Try to let go of the past and move on. It'll hurt at first but yeaa. you'll get used to it. Also, try to eradicate (is this the correct word?) the 'badmouthing' habbit. (Who doesnt like some gossip now and then?) Dont be too sensitive or dan3 xiao3. You must learn to be independant and not let ppl control you. If you give allowance to that, you are allowing yourself to be used. to be a puppet, a pawn in someone else's life. Be strong for the road ahead may not be clear. But change your life for the better and let go of those chains tying you down to this situation. Try to forgive and forget. Time heals all wounds .
Some words to A:
Try to curb that anger of yours. Likewise, try to forgive and forget. It'll not make life easier by making the other parrty's life miserable. Secondary school life is supposed to be a happy period. Dont keep lingering on the past unconsciously. Take control of your sub-conscious and look ahead. Your future is bright. Dont dim it with these kind of troubles. :D
*I think I'll be in trouble for writing this but since this is my blog. its my views laaa. I sound so aunt-ish abv -.-"*
We are a class and we should solve this issue together.Because this issue started with our class, lets not try to make anything worse than it already is.
(END)
Ok. Now to the brighter side of life :D ( or maybe not so bright but brighter then the prev issue)
EOYs are round the corner and i havent started revising.
JIAYOU 1H
And does anyone know Mrs Tan's HP no. ?
just in case i really need to ask her a question or 2.
Physics 'common test' is OVER .
Toto Chan test is OVER and i scored 27/30
That's the closest i've ever come to scoring full marks for a CHINESE test since P3 --"
I cant believe myself lorhhs . So hopless --"
T____T i really really really wanna an iPod Touch can D:
Now Yi Han wants one and i bet she'll get hers while i'll fucking NEVER get mine DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD:
I saw some geeky guy with his iPod TOUCH !!!!! OMFREAKG!!!!!!!!
So cool can. awesome-ness . i totally gawked at the iPod can T_T
I cant help but imagine what was that guy llistening to. Maybe recorded leectures? -.-
And Cecilia heard an FRH song played outloud on the train. When she finally 'located' the source, she was freaked out.
It was an old geezer sleeping in the MRT who was playing that song . She comfirmed it when the FRH song finished and an oldie was played . ... ... ... *speechless*
HK FRH CONCERT ROCKS. although YL didnt play my preferred instrument but o well :D
WUZUN played MY PREFERRED INSTRUmENT T_____T i wanted to cry when i heard the news D:
i find him slightly ok but . YL * DC ROCKS XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
DC as usual played the guitar. I hope he looks as shuai as he was while playing the role of GUI LONG in TXF who played the guitar XDDD
YL played the piano. GIves me the urge to learn piano but . i'll rather learn drums :D
Calvin did some beatbox thingy. Cant imagine --"
We sitting front row lehhs ... ...
If he stand here the edge of the stage then us at the front row SG FRH CONCERT will be splatttered with his kou2 shui3 . Calvin fans will be honoured but not us YL fans xD
must rmb to bring umbrella just in case x.x
Gd Night peeps . <3
:D
P.S. This is my LONGEST post like EVER i think x.x -edited at 9.58pm